Why do we need constant distractions?
I’m not immune to the endless scrolling, the need to check something, watch something, fill the silence but I have started to notice it more. I remember being a child, sitting at the breakfast table reading the back of the cereal box just because it was there. I wasn’t in a hurry to escape my own thoughts and nowadays that kind of presence feels rare.
I’m not trying to eliminate distraction completely as that’s neither realistic nor necessary, but I do want balance. I want to trust my gut, make better decisions, and avoid being seduced by the wrong things for superficial reasons. And I’m aware that kind of clarity doesn’t come from wishing, it comes from practice.
You have to learn how to use your space.
You have to build the habits.
You have to create a sense of discipline.
Not because you can control everything, but because freedom often begins with structure. What’s your relationship with distraction?