Stop comparing your behind-the-scenes to everyone else’s highlight reel. What you see is their success, not their struggle. Their wins, not their failures. The final draft, not the rough attempts that came before it. Your journey is yours, shaped by your timing, your context, and your work. Their journey belongs to them. Comparison drains joy and quietly undermines progress, pulling focus away from what actually matters: staying committed to your own path.
Never complain, never explain
One of my life philosophies is to avoid complaining, which means I never have to explain! Complaining often makes others think that you’re either unwilling to take responsibility for your circumstances or that you lack the competence to handle them. When you complain frequently, you may develop a negative mindset where everything feels like a potential problem, even when there’s nothing wrong. Complaining doesn't improve the situation; it doesn’t help you grow. Instead of complaining, focus on working harder and letting your actions speak for themselves.
Disclaimer: This is not truly how I feel. While the above reflects a certain mindset, I believe in the value of expressing emotions and seeking help when needed.
““Complaining is not a strategy. You have to work hard with the world as you find it, not as you would have it be.””